What a celebration she has had with her sole mate. The one she has held in her heart all these years. I quietly asked her if it was a good enough celebration that I would not have to have that talk with Heavenly Father, I told her I would. I also thought about how Uncle Kent needed to go when he did, he had allot of catching up to do with his Father so he would know him better before his Mother returned. I also thought how Grandmother needed to be here to represent her family since her spouse wasn’t able to. What a wonderful lady and a wonderful life she lead for all of us. I remember what a great cook I thought she was. I remember Sugar Cookies and Peanut Butter in the coffee tins when we would visit. I remember Pink Popcorn for the 4th of July celebration. Also, the best was you would wake up to the smell of pancakes early in the morning. She would make them every day for Uncle Kent because he loved them. She always served the pancakes with Tang in the mini cups from cheese wiz. I remember playing games with her and also her Mother (which she was allot of fun as well). Games were what we did. Also as a child we would play Dr. and office because she always had the special pink papers from her work. The fun desk and chair. We would get all dressed up and walk around the block in her cute close she had for us. Also we would enjoy making necklaces or coloring. She loved her family, all of us and let us know with love. She entertained us well, took care of us on our visit. There was always treats. She loved gum. She loved the gospel and believed it with all of her heart. She loved serving in the church and going out to serve. She loved to visit and be with us all. Loved hugs and kisses on the cheek. What a great lady, raised her family in the best way she knew how and brought them up strong in the gospel. They served missions, married in the temple and raised there families in the gospel. She made the best of her life. Had a great smile and laughed often. Most didn’t know her health problem after Uncle Kent because she didn’t complain. I loved visiting her and having celebrations with her and the family. Going over the canyon, seeing the temple, Christmas lights in Main, knowing we would be there shortly. I love this little lady and admire her and the life she lead. She was compulsive, had everything in its place, tidy, clean and was a perfectionist, but in a good way. We all have become a little bit like her and for that I am greatful. Love you Grandmother and I know you are enjoying your new life style. Know that you will be missed here on earth but it won’t be long and we will all see you again. Love, Tonya
Monthly Archive for March, 2008
Grandmother Cook, always a lady. We had so much fun playing Rummikub with her. I never liked her meatloaf, too many onions, a continuing tribute to her husband who would eat them like apples. She was a good cook with everything else, however. She was a trooper, camping at the Reunions until we went to Deseret Land and Livestock. She took care of her family on her own after her husband’s death. She got two sons, a daughter, and herself through college after his death. She saw all her children and most grandchildren married in the temple. She saw most Great grand children baptized. She made all the great grandkids quilts that they all loved. She made all her grandchildren pillow cases and such for their weddings. She served in the temple and many other church callings. She loved to sing. She loved her family. She loved playing games and laughing. One specific memory that may seem silly to some, but is wonderful for me is this: one day she was at our white house in Providence and I was getting in trouble about a huge snarl in my hair. She took me behind the couch, out of sight of others, but close enough to still be a part of things, and carefully and patiently combed it out. It was such a simple thing but I’ve always remembered it as a loving gesture. I will miss her terribly. I’m happy, though, that she will finally get her wish to be reunited with her beloved husband, who’s been gone for so long.
Our week at the cabin is the week after July 4th. I believe that will also be the D&B reunion. Unless the fossils change their minds. We hope everyone can come. We will give out more information later. I just wanted to have you all get it on your calendars ASAP. The fossils have been a little busy with other things right now, so I thought I would let you all know.
Don’t you just love them. Everyone has their favorites. The smart thing they do is only sell them once a year. This way you buy more than you normally would because you know you’ll eventually run out. Maybe they should start selling them twice a year. Anyway, although smart, I think it’s very cruel to make us wait so long. By-the-way, my favorite are the mint.
“You know, I believe we have two lives. The life we learn with and the life we live with after that.”
What movie is the quote in and who said it (I will except the actor/actresses name in place of the characters.)
There is a great column by Glenn Beck today on CNN.com. Give it a read if you have a chance.
I read this commentary on politics today by playwrite David Mamet in the Village Voice. There are a couple of swear words in his commentary, but for what it’s worth, I think he is spot on.